When we find ourselves caring for loved ones who need assistance, permanently or temporarily, we just “do what comes next” and often don’t realize we have stepped into an increasingly demanding role, one that can become overwhelming if we don’t ratchet up our self-care to stay physically and spiritually healthy. Because we are busy, we venture out less, and our needs become “invisible” even to friends who are eager to help.
So, I’m thrilled to report that we doubled participation at last month’s Caregiver Respite Luncheon. Those numbers demonstrate greater awareness, more openness to give and receive care, and our church’s growing response to a growing need. Thanks to terrific facilitators, we are also learning! Please contact me to get connected to the wisdom and resources that were shared.
What’s next? Some things to know:
Caregiver Support Group—There is significant interest in a group that will meet regularly, in person or online, to see and support those in a season of caregiving.
CareYaya—This program, successful at UNC and the College of Charleston, is assessing interest in Greenville. Administrators developed an app enabling caregivers to schedule medical students for caregiving hours; students earn school credit plus about $17 per hour. If we can supply 3 or 4 families needing 20 or more hours a week, CareYaya will launch here with our USC School of Medicine!
Stephen Ministers are available to provide confidential companionship, spiritual support and an ongoing connection to the church—things easily pushed aside while caregiving.
Apps to the Rescue! New apps have reduced the stress of organizing care so that one text can enable your circle of support to self-organize around you. Caringbridge, Caring Village, Lotsa Helping Hands, Medisafe and the AARP Caregiving app are just a few—great tools for friendship circles and Sunday School classes to stay connected and organize care.
For more information contact: kyle.matthews@firstbaptistgreenville.com, 864-233-2527, ext. 138
—Kyle Matthews, Minister of Pastoral Care